When I meet a new person, or if I
am put into a new situation, I have been told that I get very quiet. This is
strange for me, since I consider myself opinionated and deeply invested in the
livelihood of others. The reason I stay quiet is because I am waiting until I
understand the personalities and relationships in my environment. What kind of
humour do they have? What different experiences have they lived through? Do
they have crazy opinions? I am attracted to the personalities of those who are
confident and have lived their lives strangely. They are the people I want to
learn from, whom I want to challenge, and have them challenge me.
| Bernard is an interesting person. We know this because he has a beautiful moustache. |
One of my goals, of late, has been
to say truthful things. It’s harder than it sounds. How often do we say we have
to go, when in fact we just want to leave a conversation? How often do we tell
harmless lies to not offend someone? Thankfully, I keep good company, with
people who will challenge me if I say something that isn’t true. I think if I
kept boring people around me, I would hold myself less accountable.
I am blessed to be surrounded by
people who are interesting, honest and thoughtful. They keep my mind healthy
and my conversations sincere. While I think the desire to keep away from boring
people is universal, we all need different people in our lives to complement
us. What kind of people do you surround yourself with?
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